On Thursday, at dinner, my teenage niece was aghast at what I had just done. My cellphone beeped, indicating a message had arrived. And I IGNORED IT!
She was visibly agitated. “Aren’t you going to see what it is? It’s on YOUR cellphone!”
And became even more so when I replied: “I don’t check my SMS often.”
Shock written large on her face, she turned back to her meal.
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On Friday, my cousin walked into my office asking if I would help him by sending an email to the University he was registered at.
I explained how I had once emailed them for a related matter, and they never did get back to me… about how unreliable email had become.
Surprised, he exclaimed “I can understand them not replying to a letter or phone call, but email… !”
He was still shaking his head in amazement as he left the room.
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On Saturday, I got a Twitter DM (direct message) from my friend Kevin Riley. He wanted some information to use in a manifesto he’s working on. I replied to it within a half hour.
At the same time, in my email inbox, I have over 800 messages lying unread. Barely 1 in 30 get a reply. And 50% won’t ever reach me, as my virtual assistant filters and deals with them.
When this realization struck me, I was just as surprised as my niece and cousin. Once upon a time, email had consumed half my working life!
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So… what technology is “best”?
None of them.
And all of them.
Because at our core, we are not ‘technology-driven’ – but ‘human nature driven’.
We have different preferences and choices, likes and dislikes, favorites and hates.
That’s why I’ll blithely ignore SMS or email and respond promptly to a Twitter DM, while a teenager will stay glued to her cellphone that acts as her lifeline to a network of her friends, and a teacher will believe email takes priority over all else and must always get a response.
What technology do YOU prefer?